I Once Was Lost: Becoming Curious

In I Once Was Lost, Everts and Schaup unpack five thresholds postmodern skeptics usually cross on their way to faith in Jesus. I summarized them in a previous post and we looked at the first threshold, trusting a Christian, here.

The second threshold is that the skeptic must become curious about Jesus. Just because a skeptic knows and trusts a Christian, doesn’t mean he’s curious about Jesus or on the verge of becoming a Christian. Curiosity tends to grow from awareness of unanswered questions and options, to engagement with someone who can help answer these questions, to exchanging ideas, questions, and opinions with a Christian friend.

Everts and Schaupp suggest several ways we can provoke curiosity in our friends, based on Jesus’ interaction with others in gospels.

1. Encourage questions. Jesus is asked 183 questions in the gospels. He answers 3 of them, and asks 307 questions back. There’s a time to give a clear-cut answer and there’s a time to encourage our friends to ask deeper, more important questions. Are you an answer giver or a question asker?

2. Use parables. Jesus used open-ended stories to invite others into a deeper conversation about the Kingdom of God. What movies, novels, and tv shows can be used to engage our friends in a spiritual conversation? Which of Jesus’ stories are particularly provocative for our skeptical friends?

3. Live curiously. Jesus surprised people with his actions, which prompted more questions. How can we live in such a way to instigate conversation?

The goal in this threshold is to point our friends to Jesus and the surprising things he said and did. Nothing provokes more curiosity than the “Kingdom of God” and the way Jesus talked about it and lived it out.

Transformation Guaranteed

In a recent post, I described my experience with crossfit and the difference it’s made in my life. I’m not alone in this. I’ve seen plenty of people cautiously step into a crossfit gym, give it a try, and have something powerful awakened within them. At the end of the post, I said that I’ve experienced more positive life change, in myself and others, in one year of doing crossfit than in 12 years of doing church work. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about why this is so. Here’s my first observation.

Not everyone who tries crossfit sticks with it. For some, it’s too hard, too sweaty, too complicated, or too expensive. But for others, it’s life changing. For those who do stick with it, there’s a certain predictability to their experience.

Walk into a crossfit gym and visit with a trainer and he or she will say something like this: Learn the fundamental movements, do the program, clean up your diet, and stick with it and you’ll get in the best shape of your life. You’ll be stronger, faster, leaner, and feel better. Follow this path and it will change your life.

To the uninitiated, such claims can come off sounding arrogant.

Why does crossfit have a cult-like following? Why won’t crossfitters shut up about crossfit? Why are we always inviting our friends to give it a try? Because it delivers on it’s promises in a way that few programs do. Crossfit works. Guaranteed.

One of the biggest differences between my experience with churches and with crossfit is that in most churches there is very little expectation that what they are doing will actually change someone’s life. Every now and then someone at a church will wake up and have their lives changed by the gospel, but this usually happens in spite of what is happening at the church, not because of it. God will occasionally show up to remind a sleepy church that he’s still there by transforming someone. Some are shocked when this happens; others are embarrassed. (Of course, I’m generalizing here. I’m not talking about your church. I’m talking about the church down the street.)

When was the last time you said something like this to someone who was checking out your church: Walk this path with us as we follow Jesus, learn the basics of the gospel, listen to the collective wisdom gathered here, stick with it, and you will be transformed. You’ll find spiritual freedom, emotional peace, deep relationships, and the ultimate purpose for your life. Being a part of our community will get you ready for anything life throws at you. We’re walking an ancient path that has been validated by the countless experiences of those who have gone before us. The gospel works. Give it a try. You won’t be disappointed.

Why aren’t more people excited about what’s going on at their church? Why don’t they spend more time talking about it and inviting others to give it a try? Because lives aren’t being changed. Transformation isn’t a normal part of their church experience. They can make no guarantees that being a part of their church will make any noticeable difference in anyone’s life.

Why do crossfitters seem to have more confidence in crossfit than Christians have in the gospel?

Town Lake Trail

One of my favorite things about Austin is the ample running trails. Since we’ve moved here I’ve run at Brushy Creek and Walnut Creek several times. On Saturday, I drove south to Town Lake, parked under the Mopac bridge, and ran the loop around the lake. It’s a little over 10 miles.  The first hour was beautiful and lots of fun. The last forty-five minutes was hot and not so fun, but I finished it. While I ran, I listened to a spy thriller on audiobook that was set in Austin. Kinda cool to hear about local landmarks as I ran. However, I got so caught up in the story that I started to get paranoid as I ran along the dam. I could just imagine a sniper sitting in the woods getting ready to pick me off.

One thing I’ve noticed about my running is that since I started crossfit, I run less miles a week than I used to, but I can run longer and faster. My 5k times are getting better and better. It seems that crossfit is a great way to get in running shape without having to log a crazy amount of miles each week.

I love to run. Always have. Ten years ago I ran the Portland Marathon. It may be time to run another one.

One Year Later

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The first picture was taken on July 18, 2008. The second was taken exactly one year later. Today, I’m in better shape, have more energy and confidence, and feel ready for just about anything life throws at me. One year ago I was burned out, depressed, and stuck in a coffin-sized rut.

What brought about these changes? Well, it was an anti-depressant that knocked me off high-center in May 2008. I hated the idea of going to a doctor and asking for a little white pill to help me with my mood, but my emotions finally got so unmanageable that I spoke with a psychiatrist friend who encouraged me to seek some help. I’m glad I did. I thank God for that little white pill.

In June 2008, I walked into Next Generation Crossfit to check it out. After one embarrassing workout I was hooked. Every workout nearly killed me, but I kept coming back. Notice how in this pic I look like I’m the only who has worked out!

crossfitclass

In August 2008, I started to zone my diet. This helped me pick the right foods to eat and the correct portions in which to eat them. For whatever reason, The Zone diet clicked for me and I’ve found it very easy to follow. Once I got on The Zone, the weight melted off and I leaned out by October 2008.

Since then, I’ve continued to crossfit like crazy and follow the Zone. In March of this year I came off the anti-depressant and haven’t missed it. Crossfit has helped me to feel better physically, yes, but also emotionally and spiritually. God has used crossfit to make some huge changes in me. We wouldn’t be living in Austin trying to launch a church right now if the events I just described hadn’t occurred.

A special thanks goes out to Eric and Luila Barber at NextGen. They provided the environment, information, and encouragement I needed to make these changes.

All you preachers/church people who read my blog listen up! Here’s something I’ve been thinking about for months now and I’m still not sure what to do with it.

I’ve experienced more positive life change in myself and in others in the one year I’ve been doing crossfit than I’ve seen in twelve years of church work.

What do you think about this assertion? Assuming it’s true, why do you think it is so?

I Used to be a Preacher

I used to be a preacher. My week was dominated by the sermon. I’d study for it on Tuesday. Make notes about on Wednesday. Write it out on Thursday. Revise it on Friday. Get nervous about it on Saturday. Preach it Sunday. Question it on Monday. Then start it all over again.

I followed that cycle for twelve years, until about four months ago. Since then I’ve only preached four times. My life is not dominated by the sermon anymore. This is a good thing. As a church launcher (I prefer this term over church “planter”), I’m spending more time with people and no time with the sermon. This may seem like an odd thing for a preacher to say, but you might be surprised how easy it is for a preacher to use the sermon as an excuse to duck people, especially if your sermons are pretty good. Most Christians will cut their preacher a lot of relational slack if it means they don’t have to listen to a boring sermon on Sunday. If you’re not a very good preacher, then you better be a good minister to people though. That’s the trade off in most churches I know.

I’ve always been a better preacher to people than a minister to people and I’ve gotten away with it because I don’t usually preach boring sermons. In my new life as a church launcher, no one in Austin cares what kind of preacher I am. The quality of my ministry right now is measured solely by the quality of my relationships with people who haven’t heard me preach. I’m finding it to be a wonderful experience. Set free from feeling the pressure to be a good preacher, I’m learning to be a good friend, neighbor, and workout partner to the people around me.

I miss preaching. I miss the times of study filled with curiosity and discovery. I miss the “aha” moments when I am given a creative way to make a point. I miss standing before a crowd on Sundays and sharing the fruit of my study, thinking, praying, and creativity. I don’t miss the nervous Saturday nights though. Saturday night has always been my least favorite part of being a preacher. I think it may be a sign that I’ve always taken myself too seriously as a preacher.

I hope and believe that someday I’ll stand before a crowd of people here in Austin and use my teaching gifts once again. I look forward to that day. Until then, I’m going to let God continue to teach me what I’ve been so slow to learn so far. The people were not created for the sermon, the sermon was created for the people. I love preaching sermons. I’m learning to love people!