While I’ve been writing these posts with preachers in mind, I’ve had several readers tell me that they see them applying to other situations as well. Thanks for the great feedback. When we have the opportunity to leave a job, church, or relationship for another one, it’s easy to believe that changing circumstances will make […]
Archives for April 2011
Seth Godin on How to Fail
Seth Godin gives some great advice about how to fail. Here are his six suggestions for how to fail better: Whenever possible, take on specific projects. Make detailed promises about what success looks like and when it will occur. Engage others in your projects. If you fail, they should be involved and know that they […]
April 11, 2011 by Leave a Comment
I Didn’t Sign Up For This!
When I went to work with the Garnett Church in 2003, I believed I was stepping into a ministry with tremendous upside. After being there for less than a year, I found myself in a mess I hadn’t signed up for. A key staff member, someone who was crucial to my effectiveness there, resigned unexpectedly. […]
April 8, 2011 by 10 Comments
Before You Go: Leave Your Ideal Church Behind
A friend sent me this note in response to my last post. I share it with his permission. If I’d have practiced this principle two wife’s ago I wouldn’t have had two previous wives. But, if I hadn’t screwed up in my relationships then I wouldn’t have developed to be ready for “———” who I […]
April 4, 2011 by 9 Comments
Before You Go: Can You Love The Church As It Is?
I’ve recently had some great conversations with a couple of preachers who are thinking about moving to new churches. I’ve shared with each of them the following principle. When considering a new church, make sure you love the church as it is before you say yes to their invitation to become their preacher. Here’s one […]
April 1, 2011 by 8 Comments
Telling Stories, Asking Questions, Learning Lessons