I write the following as one who has done the very things I’m lamenting. I speak from regrettable experience on this one. During my senior year in High School, I was a self-proclaimed missionary to the Baptists and enjoyed a fair amount of “success.”
“They sow the wind and reap the whirlwind.” Hosea 8:7 (NIV)
To engage our emerging culture, we’re going to have to make some changes. What kind of changes? At this point it doesn’t really matter. There is an anti-change bias in Churches of Christ that’s not going away any time soon.
One of the big reasons for this, but not the only one, is that there are a number of people in our churches who were not converted to Christ. They were converted to a particular theology of baptism, style of worship, or church polity. They’re not a part of our fellowship because we helped them fall in love with Jesus, but because we convinced them that our way of doing church was more right than theirs. If anything, they were converted to our tribe because they already loved Jesus and we were able to persuade them that if they didn’t make the switch, then their love for him might be in vain.
So they took the plunge all over again. They left behind parents, spouses, life-long friends, and years of memories in order to be a part of “The Church.” We told them the truth as we saw it. We looked them in the eye and professed concerned for their everlasting souls. We overwhelmed them with syllogisms and proof texts. Many of them believed us, so much so that they were willing to make a painful choice.
These are the same people who are now bristling at the suggestion that we’re not the only ones–that we’re no smarter, no better, no more righteous than the very churches they bailed out of years ago. They severed the ties. They endured the pain. Now they’re being told it wasn’t necessary. At least that’s the implication they’re drawing from our attempts to be more open to dialogue and fellowship with other tribes.
My experience is that it’s those whom we have converted to Churches of Christ, rather than C of C lifers, who are the most resistant to change. And I can’t say that I blame them. They joined us and now we’re changing the rules of the game. Though they may not say it, their resistance to change is a scream of desperate protest, “If we’re not the only ones, then why did I go through all I went through years ago?”
Of course, the rules need to be changed. We were wrong. We judged them. We condemned them. We manipulated them (at least I did). Now we’re trying to take it back.
We’re trying to recover the message of the gospel. We’re searching for ways to share the good news of Jesus with actual sinners. We’re begging our churches to open themselves up to new ideas and experiences. We’re pleading for flexibility in thought and action. We’re looking for a few risk-takers who will join us on the adventure of faith.
In so many of our congregations, it’s not happening. They’re not budging. They’ve experienced all the faith-induced, change-based pain they intend to.
Before we castigate them for being narrow-minded or accuse them of being hard-hearted, we must take responsibility for the message we preached. We must acknowledge that we are facing the sad consequences of good news gone not so slightly askew.
This fierce wind we find ourselves staggering against, she’s strong for a reason.




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